picasso Never, ever believe a word they say. They are lying to you. They make a lot of money. They pull the pity party story all the time. With women, they ask us to marry them so they can get a green card and come here to work. Or they ask for money so they can eat. Or so that they can get a visa. Or they didn't know it was a scam. Or they are feeding their sick mother and siblings. Or....... Or........ Or........ They have no remorse and no conscience.